Potty training made easy

You're under pressure because your toddler's still in nappies and she won't be allowed to start nursery unless she's toilet trained.

All the other mums seem to have cracked it, so why can't you? Follow our simple advice on what to do...

Your 7-step plan

1. Use your instinct.

You'll know when they're ready. Look out for the signs - talking about a wet nappy, telling you they want the loo or pulling off nappies.

2. Relax.

If you're tense about the toilet - your toddler will be too. Choose a week that's good for you to make this a priority.

3. Really go for it.

Dispose of the nappies. Challenge yourself to keep your nerve - and them in pants.

4. Make a decision

Decide if you want to use a potty or go straight to a trainer toilet seat. If you use a potty, put it in the bathroom - not the TV room.

5. Accidents will happen.

Don't be negative and make a fuss. This is all new for them too.

6. Good habits are caught not taught.

Let them go to the toilet with you and sit them on the potty or toilet at times they usually fill their nappy.

7. Excite them

Use a sticker chart for when they go to the toilet - and letting them choose 'big boy' or 'girl pants' will motivate them to stay dry.

Differences between boys and girls

Experts say it generally takes longer for boys to learn how to use the toilet. Kirsty Ballantyne, a former nanny and now a nursery teacher working in Edinburgh, says that in her experience girls learn to use the potty faster than boys: 'Girls start showing interest from the age of 2, while boys I looked after began at around 3-31/2 years of age.' 3-31/2 years of age.'

Lorraine Thomas
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