Our Circles of Life

There are circles, or limits, in life that we must all follow. If we don't, there are repercussions that'll be paid by you, me, and those loved ones around us.

May I explain what I mean by circles of life.

Every life is a circle. Me and you and everybody that is born into this world is a circle. Our circle belongs to us and no one else. It's the perimeter that surrounds who we are and what we're all about. Our personality and personality all belong to us and operates within our circles. People who are permitted in are sometimes in a position to see a deeper and intimate side of us. The genuine us is disclosed to these very chosen few.

We are the only ones who can give authorization as regards what or who comes into our circles. This is very important. Who we date, marry, what types of mates we have what ever the situation, we permit or invite folk into our circles.

You meet the man or woman of your dreams and you go out and get wed. This person has now become a partner in your circle. Your circle and theirs have turned into one circle.You and they're in the most personal and deep part of who you are and what makes you tick. They can now see you as you actually are, and you can see them as they really are, and the circle is complete. There's no room for anyone else. From this point on, the circle can now only be opened to others by the permission of you and your other half. You both control who comes in.

I must stress this point, because it is so important. I'm really not saying that you or your partner loose your identity. Remember, both your circles have mixed into one. That's the reason why a ring is exchanged at the marriage ceremony as it represents the unifying of the 2 individual circles into one. The 2 have changed into one. This unification process will take a whole life to complete, and there are many events and circumstances that may happen to bring this about, but that'll be for another article. Right now I just wish to lay the ground work as to what the circles of life are and how they operate.

Now there are kids that come into this new family. They are an extension of the more broad circle that makes up our family. They are not in the inner circle, which is husband and wife, they make up another circle which has all their kids.

Nobody is ever allowed in the inner circle, not even kids. This is sacred ground that belongs only to the husband and better half. This is where I feel so many people today make a huge mistake. I see folks who let children in this circle, or friends, or pastimes, or anything more, and these things will come in and try to take over the central hub of this family, ( which remember is the husband and spouse ), and destroy it from inside. Before you know it they're dominating the time and energies that were only allocated for husband and wife and now there's a crack and eventual slow separation of this central center. This is why, I think there are such a lot of divorces. If we do not honour these circles of life, there's a price that'll be paid by many involved.

There's other circles that are all extensions of the central one, that include aunts, uncles, granny and grandpa. These are all important parts of the circles of life, but they must be in their right places and given the proper respect and honor. Next there is pals, and then there's co-workers etc and and so on. I hope you can visualize what I'm talking about here.

I have seen this play out in my private life and in the lives of my children and others around me. We are living in a society where nobody honors any circles at all, and the result is divorce, broken relationships, angriness, and hostility. This is also played out in other states, governments, and businesses and the result's the same.

It is very basic and straightforward to appreciate, but very hard to implement in our every day living, but it is so important and something we all must acknowledge. If these circles are recognized and honoured, the result's strong relationships, love and expansion between people, and a much needed peace between all.


After thirty five successful years at Ford Motor Company, Brian Gosur has a new career as an entrepreneur, network marketer, and internet marketing coach. To learn more about him, visit his website at; Brian Gosur

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