How to Save a Relationship

If you're worried about saving your relationship that is ripping apart,  here are some of my personal answers to frequent questions asked.

Q: Where do I start in saving my relationship?

A: The first thing you need to do is know for sure that this relationship is important enough to you to save. Your situation might be different, but most troubled relationshipsconsist of one or both parties taking the relationship for granted. Your relationship might start to fray when you start to forget to show any form of affection.

Q: When it comes to my troubled relationship , where do I start to fix it.

A:Blaming each other is just going to make things worst. In order to save your relationship, you need to understand that you control your own actions. Ask yourself these grueling questions. Reflect back on what you have done to hurt the relationship, if you want improve the relationship you need to improve yourself first. You can't expect anyone other than yourself to change .

Q: What actions do I take to change my boyfriend?

A: Like I said above, another person can't be expected to change for you. You have to love him for who he is or not at all. People these days believe that everything should be split in half to be fair. Equally dividing the chores, planning dates, money, and whatever else. This would be ideal in a business relationship but could be really damaging to a romantic relationship. In order to improve a relationship you need to make sure you love and show love even if he doesn't do dishes or take out the trash.

Q: What can I do to reverse the damaged that has been done to our relationship?

A: You should already know what not to do if you know why your relationship is falling apart. You just need to catch yourself before you say or do something that can cause another fight. With practice, it will be easier to catch yourself  before you do something that can hurt your relationship more. When you catch yourself, you should be the bigger person and drop the issue if it's not worth the fight.

Q: What else can I do  to fix our relationship?

A: If you want to save your relationship, let him know. Just betruthful and apologize for all the things you have done to cause your relationship to be damaged. Don't make excuses for your actions or try to be smug about it. Get ready to be open andhonest and be prepared to be be vulnerable. Make sure he knows that you are ready to do whatever it takes to save your relationship because the relationship is important to you. He may also say he is sorry but that is not the point. Being sincere and apologetic will let him know you are committed to fixing the relationship.

It may take some time to change things and learn to do and say things differently. Saving the relationship will not be so difficult if you guys are honest and committed to each other.

Andrew Hunter was dumped by his girlfriend while studying abroad in Italy. When he returned home to the United States, he studied the secrets on how to get your ex back. Now he enjoys helping others save their relationships.

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